Win from Within


We are already two weeks into yet another year.

What steps are you planning to take to make this year the year that you establish and begin building the loving, committed relationship of your dreams?

A committed relationship with a partner who truly accepts and loves you for the person that you are- Isn’t that what you really want?

One of the keys to attracting a partner who will truly honor and love you for the wonderful person that you are is to honor and love yourself by putting consistent effort into your own self-development.

It is in the realm of our thoughts, and the feelings that they elicit, where the battle for love and fulfillment begins and ends.

I have found that the people who are the most successful in establishing and building truly satisfying relationships work very hard on themselves.

Such people naturally attract people into their lives and choose to partner with other people who also work hard on themselves.

I have also found that such people also understand that they must put consistent effort into their committed relationship.

In fact, such people put significant effort into all of their important relationships.

Self-reliant and empowered people consistently strive to do:

  1. Acknowledge and fully accept their weaknesses while cultivating their positive attributes.
  2. They are patient with themselves.
    They realize that it took them their entire lives to become the people that they are today.They understand that personal growth is always challenging and inevitably involves struggle and suffering.Finally, they understand that there are no quick fixes.
    They roll up their sleeves and stay the course.
  3. They do not let fear of change immobilize them.
    They are not overly afraid of change.They realize that change is inevitable and that new and different results require trying out new and different strategies.They are willing to get into uncomfortable, imperfect action.

    They understand that it is human nature to struggle to become more.  They give themselves full permission to fail and full permission to keep trying.

    If at first they don’t succeed, they keep trying until they do!

  4. They completely avoid the blame game.
    Been there, done that… got the ‘T-shirt’.They take full responsibility for their lives, wellbeing and happiness.They have come to understand that happiness attracts happiness and misery attracts misery.

    In this context, I ask you to consider what is missing in your life besides a loving, committed relationship?

    Do everything that you possibly can to find happiness and fulfillment now, while you are single and ‘looking’.  This will help you to attract people into your life who are also striving to be happy in the present.

For my part, I strive to be all that I can be.

My beloved wife, Julia, does the same.

I fully support her efforts to grow into her ‘fullness’ and she fully supports my efforts to become more of the man that I am in my heart.

If that’s the kind of relationship that you want, I invite you to contact me now and request your complimentary Committed Partner Breakthrough session.

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Take advantage of the opportunity that life has placed on your doorstep…. Make this YOUR year to attract true, lasting love and contact me now!!!

I sincerely hope that you found this post inspiring and useful.

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I wish you all the best in the new-year.

See you next week.

Live, connect, love and prosper

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Comment by Bill
January 14, 2014 @ 6:44 am

I had feelings coming up last night and much if not all of the drama had to do with the opposite of those 4 self-reliant topics that you shared—Thank you–Bill

Comment by stephen light
January 16, 2014 @ 2:20 am

Hey Ron

Good to know it takes time and that it is a journey.

Love & Courage

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