The Royal Path to True, Lasting Love


If you are single and seeking true, lasting love then this post is for YOU!

When I consider my many conversations with singles seeking love, a common goal emerges:

  • People seeking love want a committed well-matched partner who truly accepts and loves them for the person they are.

Isn’t that what you really want?

What is standing in your way?

Please take a moment to jot a few thoughts down.

Believe it or not you already poses your ‘all access pass’ for the ‘Royal Path’ to love and fulfillment:

  • The power of personal choice.

A little personal context

My love life was not always something to celebrate.

My own path to true, lasting love was arduous, circuitous and fraught with broken relationships that ended with me feeling frustrated, disappointed and discouraged.

Sound familiar?

For the record, I am now happily married to a wonderful woman who truly loves me for the man that I am.

We have been together for over ten years and are building a deeply mutually satisfying and mutually empowering relationship.

So how did I break the cycle of broken miss-matched relationships and create a lasting, loving relationship?

For me, a major turning point in my life was when my Spiritual teacher shared with me that if I wanted my life to be different, then it was up to me to take full responsibility for my life, happiness, and wellbeing.

It is in the realm of our thoughts and the feelings they elicit that the battle for love and fulfillment begins and ends.

Taking full responsibility for our lives is not always easy.

It is far easier to simply blame our unhappiness on our lack of a loving, committed partner, while avoiding talking steps to improve our circumstances and/or find happiness in our current situation.

What’s popping up for you?

Please take a moment and write down your responses to the following questions:

What is missing in your life besides a loving committed relationship?

Do you want to attract a partner who depends on you to make them happy?


Do you want to attract a partner who is happy, reasonably well adjusted and takes full responsibility for their life, happiness, and well being?


Would you rather raise a family with a partner who depends on you to make them happy or one that takes responsibility for their own happiness and wellbeing?


If you are seeking an equal, mutually empowering committed relationship then you and your partner must be able to find happiness and fulfillment within yourselves.

I have found that it is the synergy between two self-reliant, reasonably well-adjusted, responsible adults that makes a committed relationship fun, exciting, dynamic and sustainable.

Two self-reliant people who choose to support each other in a committed, loving relationship can build a truly mutually satisfying, sustainable relationship.

My wife and I are just two ordinary people who have created an extraordinary love.

So, the first step on the Royal Path to attracting a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are is to take full responsibility for all aspects of your life and to do everything that you can to find happiness and fulfillment now, in your present circumstances.

I call this the ‘Royal Path’ because we all have the potential to be the King or Queen of our kingdom.

This is because we all have the power to choose.

Wayne Dyer said it succinctly:

“Be miserable.  Or motivate yourself.  Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice.”

Unfortunately, many people refuse to take full ownership of their lives and as a result limit their opportunities for a truly satisfying life.

People who approach life in this manor will never be able create a loving mutually empowering committed, relationship.


In essence, they have abdicated the throne of their kingdom. They have chosen to allow circumstances and ‘personal limitations’ to dictate their path.

If you are seeking an equal, mutually empowering relationship, I invite YOU to take the first step:

  • Take full responsibility for your all aspects of your life, happiness and wellbeing.

Decide today to become the ruler of your kingdom.

Claim your all access pass to the Royal Path to love and fulfillment.

I sincerely hope that you found this post inspiring and useful.

I am here if you need me.

Live, Connect, Love and Prosper

See YOU next week!

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Comment by stephen light
December 4, 2013 @ 8:32 am

Hi Ron

I love this quote – It is in the realm of our thoughts and the feelings they elicit that the battle for love and fulfillment begins and ends.

Did you write this?

So powerful.

Love & Courage
Stephen Light

Comment by Ron
December 10, 2013 @ 7:45 am

Dear Stephen, You are so kind to support my work of helping people establish and build truly mutually empowering relationships. Yes, I did write the quote in question. Sometime time early next year I will be releasing my first book on building emotional connection. I will keep you posted. Thanks again for your support. To Love and Courage! Ron

Comment by Kevin
December 11, 2013 @ 9:22 am

Good morning,
I love the post you shared. Question for you: If already in a comitted relationship, is it possible to achieve this if one party is actively willing to pursue the goals of growth and healing, and the other is not willing to?

Comment by Ron
December 31, 2013 @ 8:08 am

Dear Kevin, thank you for your question. I have found that if there is really love between two people then if one partner begins to put more effort into the relationship this opens the door for their partner to do the same. Some keys to making this work: (1) Give without any expectations, (2) Be open, honest, and own your mistakes and shortcomings, (3) Leave your partner in freedom to be who they are, (3) Express your needs, make requests, and leave your partner in freedom in support you in the ways that meet them. Thanks again for taking the time to support our community by taking the time to share your question. Warmly, Ron

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