The Inside Track on ‘Visioning’

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Our imaginative capacities play a critical, but unfortunately often misunderstood, role in the lives that we create for our selves and the good that we are able to do in the world.

I know… yet another post on visioning… more ‘new age, law of attraction malarkey’.. right?

Not exactly.

This may be the ‘riskiest’ post I’ve ever written, as I challenge some new age, mainstream ideology that I believe causes a lot of undue misunderstanding about our innately given creative capacities and our ability to manifest the deepest, most potent desires in our souls.

I want to begin by dispelling the myth that you can have anything and everything that you can envision.

I call this belief: ‘The YOU can have it all lie”.

Sorry, you can’t have it all.

The Good News:

You can have what actually fulfills you.

That’s actually how we humans are ‘wired’.

So let’s begin by embracing what’s possible.

This is actually very hard for some people.

It was very hard for me at first, as my mind kept going to why I couldn’t have the life I truly wanted.  I was really stuck!

In fact, I have found that ‘the more stuck’ a person is in the beliefs that support their currently unfulfilling life, the harder it generally is for them to ‘let go’ and allow themselves to envision a more fulfilling future.

That said, dreams that are based on frivolous desires rarely come to fruition because there is no ‘seed’ in the dreamers soul from which to bring forth this fruit.

In our western, consumer driven, overly materially-oriented society it can be very hard to discern what we really want from what we have been taught that we should want.

Everyone, myself included, has bought into at least some of the mas- marketed story around success and fulfillment.

In addition, most of us, myself included, have actually cultivated desires for material things and circumstances that are simply not consistent with who we are in our souls.

It is precisely because we don’t know what else to do that we find ourselves following such superficially based goals and dreams as if they were our true path.

Naturally, striving for something that is inconsistent with who we are at the very core of our being causes needless but very real frustration.

However, dreams based on inspirations that spring forth from the depths our souls always have a path to fulfillment.

This, my dear friends, is the key to successfully using the power of your imagination to create a living vision of the life you are truly meant to live.

In order for a vision to be living and come to fruition, it must be deeply rooted in inspiration.

I have provide a short but powerful guided meditation to help you get more deeply grounded in ‘why’ you are seeking true, lasting love.

It’s been said that if you can get deeply in touch with ‘why’ you want something then the ‘how’ to attain what you want part begins to become evident.

The following exercise will help you to dig deep enough to create a sacred promise to yourself so that you can do what it takes to be in relationship with a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are.

Inner Shift-Self-discovery contemplation exercise

I invite you to make the time to do this short exercise.

It is easy and often provides a powerful, inspiring experience.

You will need about 10 to 15 minutes of un-interrupted time by yourself.

You will also need a pad of paper and a pen to complete this little ‘inner eye’ opening exercise.

Follow these steps:

Please read through the exercise twice before starting

  1. Sit comfortably erect in a straight backed chair, preferably with arms
    Or lie down on your bed on your back. In either case be sure that your head, neck, and back are in a nice straight line.
  2. Gently close your eyes
  3. Take several slow, deep breaths through your nose
    • With each inhalation imagine that you are drawing in healing, restorative forces
    • With each exhalation imagine that you are sending blessings out the universe
  4. Now imagine a golden light entering through the crown of your head that also surrounds your entire body filling your mind with peace.
  5. Now in your mind’s eye, picture your life with a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are.
  6. Hold that image in your mind
  7. Place your hands over your heart
  8. Bring your attention to your heart
  9. Now surrender the image in your mind to your heart
  10. Keep your attention on your heart
  11. Now ask yourself “Why do I want a committed partner who truly loves me for who I am?”
  12. Allow the answer to rise up in you
  13. When you are ready open your eyes and journal for 5 minutes about anything you learned.

Did you contact a deeper, more ‘inspirationally’ based motive behind your desire to be in relationship with a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are?

Did you get more in touch with your life with that special person by your side?

Did you make a sacred promise to yourself to be in relationship with a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are?

If, you were able to connect with a deeper, more ‘inspirationally’ based vision of your life with a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are and the true motives behind this powerful desire, I invite you to make this the basis of your vision and build on it.

Start with your sacred promise to yourself.

One more thing:

In this context it is very important to note that the longer the period of time between the inspiration to act and the action taken, the less effective the action generally is in solving the problem or challenge that initially spawned the inspiration.

The accent Greeks understood the connection between inspiration and taking inspired action.

Carpe diem- ‘seize the day’

So one very important thing to note is that we must all learn to answer the call of our own inspirations in a timely manner, especially when we are called to take actions that are outside of our comfort zone.

This willingness to act on our inspirations is what really gets the creative juices flowing and keeps us moving forward.

The more we are truly willing to get into ‘uncomfortable imperfect action’ – to stretch beyond what we currently think, do, and say –  the more our inspirationally based, imaginative capacities can serve us in our quest for love and fulfillment.

Get into ‘uncomfortable, imperfect action’ and you will find the courage to take steps toward a reimagined life that just a few minutes ago you thought was beyond your reach!

The courage to get into uncomfortable imperfect action always comes to us after we get into action.

Ask anyone who has knowingly put their life on the line and they will tell you that the courage to act comes to them in the moment they get into action.

Yes, I have direct experience with this, many times over.

From an energetic point of view- by embracing and acting on our inspirations we are letting things naturally flow.  This is sometimes referred to as getting out of our own way.

So in conclusion: being open and willing to take new and unfamiliar steps is how we get unstuck and moving forward and what we must do to keep the proverbial ball rolling once we are headed in the right direction. 

A personal invitation and a call to action:

I invite you to contact me to set up your one hour complimentary, ‘Committed Partner Breakthrough Session’.

During your complimentary one hour  ”Committed Partner Breakthrough Session” we will:

  • Create a sense of clarity about the relationship you really want to have.
  • Find out the essential building blocks for having the relationship of your dreams.
  • Discover the number one thing stopping you from having the relationship you want and deserve.
  • Identify the most powerful actions that will move you toward the relationship of your dreams.
  • Complete our session with the excitement of knowing EXACTLY what to do next to attract a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are!

Just go to the bottom of my “Services Page” and click on the sign up now button and follow the instructions.

I only have time for 5 complimentary sessions, so the first five people who sign up will get an opportunity to talk with me one on one.

Take advantage of the opportunity life has placed on your doorstep and take a big step toward attracting a committed partner who truly loves YOU for who you are!

I look forward to hearing from YOU!

Live, Connect, Love, and Proper!

Start now with a low cost ‘Committed Partner Breakthrough‘ session

During your low cost “Committed Partner Breakthrough Session” we will:

  • Create a sense of clarity about the relationship you really want to have.
  • Find out the essential building blocks for having the relationship of your dreams.
  • Discover the number one thing stopping you from having the relationship you want and deserve.
  • Identify the most powerful actions that will move you toward the relationship of your dreams.
  • Complete our session with the excitement of knowing EXACTLY what to do next to attract a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are!

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2 Comments »

Comment by stephen light
April 23, 2013 @ 8:13 am

Ron you write so beautifully

Your practical approach to life and relationships is inspiring

Thank you

Love & Courage
Stephen


Comment by DrJanet Orion
April 24, 2013 @ 6:23 pm

I love what you are doing and realize that finding a mate is a high priority for many people. While I would love to be in a passionate, wholesome, productive, delicious relationship, I have had that and know I will have it — sometime — maybe beyond this realm. I would love to support you in knowing your value and attracting clients who get the love they desire with your help and pay you handsomely so you can take this to the millions of people who want to love and be loved by another more than anything.


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