Opening YOUR Heart to Love, Things can be different this time around


Valentines’ Day is just around the corner.

The cumulative impact of past relationship disappointments often leaves people with a less than optimistic attitude regarding their chances of ever finding true, lasting love.

Truth be told, I struggled with mismatched, disappointing romantic relationships for years.

I am now happily married to a wonderful woman who truly loves me for who I am.

So how did I get from the land of repeated relationship disappointment to the land of true, lasting love?

The short answer:

Once I took full responsibility for my life, happiness and wellbeing, I began to realize that I could turn things around.

With the support of my spiritual teacher, I began to examine my beliefs around romantic love.

What we believe about ourselves and what is possible for us has a profound impact on the quality of our lives.

One day during a talk with my spiritual teacher, I had several profound, life changing realizations:

1. What we believe to be true about ourselves and what’s possible for us impacts our lives whether it is true or not.
2. That just because I hadn’t managed to make a committed romantic relationship work for the long term thus far, didn’t mean that true lasting love was out of my reach.
3. The ‘Piece de resistance’: The past does not have to dictate what’s possible for me in the future.

This lead me to question just about all of my ‘story’ around my repeated relationship failures and, just as importantly, my ‘story’ around why I was attracting women who were such poor matches.

What about you?

Have your past relationship disappointments led you to believe that true, lasting love is beyond your reach?

If this is the case allow me to ask: “Is this really true?”

Another piece of the puzzle:

Past ‘failures’ can serve as excuses for not fully facing and dealing with our issues.

I have found that many people simply take the easy road: They allow past disappointments to serve as excuses for not fully facing and dealing with their issues.

This was certainly true for me.

Personal growth is always challenging and inevitably involves struggle and suffering. 

At a deep level I was allowing my past relationship failures serve as excuses for not really dealing with my own stuff.

It was easier to just be in shallow, mostly sexually driven relationships than to do any real work on myself.

There I said it.

Something else:

You see at a very deep level, I simply believed that I was not loveable for the person that I am.

Well guess what, I am, and so are you!

I get to sleep with my best friend every night and so can you.

May I whisper something in your ear?

You are absolutely lovable the way you are.

The next time you are out and about I would like you to just notice couples.  You will see that they come in all sorts of sizes, shapes, ages, etc.

You will also see that the ones who seem happy just enjoy being together.

Let go of the past.

Leave yourself in freedom to discover what’s really possible for you here and now.

Each day is a new day, full of possibility.

This Valentines Day can be different.

True love only knocks on hearts that are open and ready for love.

It’s time for you to fully show up as the adorable person that you are.

It’s time for you to turn on your love light and let it shine.

Its time for you to stand up and shine!!!

I sincerely hope that you found this post inspiring and useful.

I invite you to support our community by posting a comment or question on my blog.

See you next week.

Live, connect, love and prosper

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