How to discover what’s really most important right now


This month’s posts have focused on getting more of what you need and deserve and, most recently, some ideas and practices that support respectful, positive, effective communication.

Today I would like to focus on a powerful method for setting priorities and getting into inspired, confident action.

Unfortunately, the ‘demands of everyday life’ often take us ‘hostage’ and as a consequence we forget who we really are and what we’re truly about!

Thankfully our Highest Most Magnificent Self is always available to remind us of who we are, what we’re truly about, and what’s really important in ‘the eternal present’.

The rationale for this approach

Our inner realms are vast, mostly uncharted territories.

Most of us spend very little time exploring our inner world as the majority of our focus is on the physical, material world.

This is as it should be.

Our survival depends upon us paying attention to our current circumstances.

However, conscious, self-directed living often requires us to ‘dig deeper’ into our consciousness to access the almost endless inspiration, motivation, and truth that lives in the depths of our souls.

As Carl Young so poignantly pointed out: “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will continue to rule your life and you will call it fate”.

Why not enlist the support of our deepest, most powerful resources- those that exist in the depths of our souls?

A little analogy might help to get my point across.

Imagine for a moment that you are taking a nice, relaxing walk in the mountains.  The trail takes you to a beautiful, still mountain pond that is crystal clear.

You curiously gaze into the pond wondering at its stillness and realize that you can see all the way to the bottom of the pond.  You see rocks of all colors, shapes, and sizes, fish, and other aquatic animals.  The amount of detail is almost beyond belief.

Your connection with this tranquil scene elicits an inner peaceful state.

This is the natural state of your mind when it is still and peaceful.

When our minds are still and tranquil we are able perceive the truth about ourselves, the world, and, perhaps most importantly can engage our minds in original, inspirationally based thinking.

Things become clear, simple, and our confidence in our selves increases.

Steps to access YOUR Highest, Most Magnificent Self and get clear on your priorities and concomitant next steps

  • Quiet your mind
  • Ask: “What is important right now?”
  • Listen without judgment
  • Be open to Your truth and true calling
  • Act on YOUR inspiration

I invite you to take a moment to just quiet your mind and allow yourself to just be.

Follow these steps to quiet your mind:

  • Sit comfortably erect on your favorite, most comfy chair or couch with your head, neck, and back in a single straight line
  • Roll your shoulders forward then backwards
  • Relax
  • Take several slow deep breaths in through your nose
  • Take note of any and all tension in your body and just let it go –give yourself full permission to just relax
  • Bring your attention to your heart cave –it is located just behind your breast plate or sternum
  • Pay attention to your breathing- just notice the air entering and leaving your lungs- do this for a few moments – until you are relaxed and peaceful
  • Notice how you feel

Now ask Your Highest, Most Magnificent Self 

What is most important right now?

Be open to the inspiration(s) that come from your consciousness.

Really listen to what Your Highest, Most Magnificent Self Tells YOU!

I invite you to take a moment to write your inspirations down.  Please do so without judging and without evaluating the implications of your inspiration.

I put it this way, because sometimes our most powerful inspirations require us to ‘try on’ a new and ‘challenging’ perspective and/or require us to try out some new ways of acting.

Act on YOUR inspiration

This is where the ‘proverbial rubber meets the road’.

We humans are incredibly resourceful and possess almost endless creative and adaptive capacities.

We also tend to limit our choices and therefore our potential because we have trained ourselves to think and act ‘small’.

I invite you to play a bigger game, to swing for the fences, and get into uncomfortable, imperfect action.

Make your dreams a reality.

Always remember that the universe will support your efforts. 

When the going gets tough, the tough get going.

We are all ‘seasoned warriors’ on the path of life.

I invite you to live into your challenges and remember my support is an email away. 

See YOU next week!

Start now with a low cost ‘Committed Partner Breakthrough‘ session

During your low cost “Committed Partner Breakthrough Session” we will:

  • Create a sense of clarity about the relationship you really want to have.
  • Find out the essential building blocks for having the relationship of your dreams.
  • Discover the number one thing stopping you from having the relationship you want and deserve.
  • Identify the most powerful actions that will move you toward the relationship of your dreams.
  • Complete our session with the excitement of knowing EXACTLY what to do next to attract a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are!

You will be guided through the steps for setting up your low cost session when you click on the ‘Sign Up Now’ button below:

Sign Up Now

No Comments »

No comments yet.

RSS feed for comments on this post.

Leave a Comment

Comment Rules: I'd love to have your comments. I welcome criticism, ideas, and thoughts. Please do not be rude (will be deleted). Please do not put your URL in the comment text. Please use your PERSONAL name or initials and not your business name, as the latter comes off like spam. Thanks for sharing your comments!


If you’d like a picture to show up by your name, get a Gravatar.