How to be LUCKY in LOVE

This week many folks will celebrate St. Patrick’s Day.  There will be green drinks, corned beef & cabbage, and lots’ of merrymaking to be had by all.

Many singles will be on the look out for that ‘special someone’.  Some of my single friends have even told me that they hope to be ‘lucky in love’ during this ‘auspicious’ time.

So what is the Love Coach’s take on what it takes to be ‘lucky in Love’?

It has been said that ‘luck is when preparedness meets opportunity’.  So how does one prepare to meet the Love of their life?

The folks at Madison Avenue would have you believe that being ‘lucky in love’ requires you to spend significant time and money on the ‘outer you’.

To attract the best, you need to look your best.

Very convincing.

You know what all of that entails.

So here’s the hundred-dollar question:  Are YOU really willing to be seen?

Are you really ready to be seen for all that you are?

Here’s a little activity to help you determine if you are really ready to be seen by Love of YOUR life.

Get up and go look at yourself in the mirror.  Take the time to look deep into your own eyes.

What did you discover?

Was there a tinge of negative self-judgment in your self-appraisal?

Did your inner critic start telling you about all of the things that are less than perfect about your appearance?

Worse yet, did your inner critic remind you about your past relationship failures?

If so, then I ask that you take a little guided journey with me.  The instructions follow:

The Path to Love

  • I invite you to sit comfortably erect in your chair with your feet flat on the floor and your back, neck and head in a single straight line.
  • Gently roll your shoulders forward, then back
  • Gently roll your head around clockwise a few turns, then counterclockwise a few turns
  • Gently close your eyes
  • Take a slow deep breath in through your nose starting by expanding your abdomen and gradually filling your lungs.  As you do so imagine that you are drawing in life giving oxygen and powerful, inspiring life forces.
  • Now exhale through your nose.  Empty your lungs by contracting your abdomen. 

As you do so, imagine that you are releasing all of the toxins and impurities in your body and letting go of all of your past relationship disappointments to be transformed by the universe into life giving forces.

  • Take a few deep breaths…. As instructed above.
  • Now bring your attention to your ‘heart cave’ or heart chakra.  To locate your ‘heart cave’, gently press your elbow against your side and move your hand to the center of your chest.
  • Imagine that your body is surrounded and filled with golden, healing light.
  • Imagine that you are in the mountains. 
  • Before you is a beautiful mountain stream with a wooden bridge crossing the stream to an inviting path on the other side.
  • You don’t know exactly where the path on the other side of the bridge leads, but it’s calling you.
  • You notice a basket by the entry to the bridge.
  • You know exactly what to do.
  • Very carefully you place all of your fears and anxiety about failing to attract the Love of YOUR life thus far into the basket
  • There is one nagging fear left… the fear that you may never find the Love of YOUR life.  You place this fear in the basket.
  • I invite you to take the basket and start your journey over the bridge and up the beautiful mountain path.
  • As you cross the bridge, you gently place your basket in the stream and watch it float away.
  • Now you consciously, gratefully continue on your journey across the bridge, following the peaceful  mountain path.
  • You notice a lightness to your steps and a new hope in your heart.
  • This path leads to The love of YOUR Life.
  • When you are ready, gently open your eyes.
  • Without speaking take a few minute to write down your experiences and what you discovered on the path.

If you took a few moments to do this exercise and jot some things down, congratulations!  You have taken a huge step toward the Love of YOUR life.

You see, a big part of attracting the Love of YOUR life is letting go of all that is not YOU.

You are not any of that negative rubbish that has gradually worked it’s way into your thoughts and feelings.

You are a child of God.

You were created in Love.

You are worthy of love.

You are a perfect match for YOUR Soul Mate just the way you are!

Please take all of this to heart.

Now you are ready to really see the relationship opportunities life has for you.

Inner preparation always trumps just making the outside look ‘attractive’.. 

True love always sees beyond the superficial.

Get out there, and be seen for who you truly are!

See you next week!

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  • Discover the number one thing stopping you from having the relationship you want and deserve.
  • Identify the most powerful actions that will move you toward the relationship of your dreams.
  • Complete our session with the excitement of knowing EXACTLY what to do next to attract a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are!

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1 Comment »

Comment by Stephen Light
March 14, 2012 @ 3:05 am

Hey Ron

Such a beautiful approach. I love the visualisation. It reminded me of the movie Avatar and their beautiful saying. I can only remember the english translation and it says “I see you.” It means they see the whole of you. What a world it would be if we allowed people to see the real ME.

Love & Courage
Stephen Light

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