Happy New Year!!!


Today is New Year’s Eve here in America.

If your are one of the many singles dreaming of love and romance in the new year, then this post is for YOU!

The Dream of true lasting Love

A committed relationship with a partner who truly loves you for the person that you are.

Isn’t that want you really want?

Frankly, I have found that most singles seeking love really want a committed partner who truly loves them for who they are.

Unfortunately, more and more people are finding it hard to build sustainable long-term romantic relationships.

So what makes the dream of committed romantic love so hard to attain?

What is coming up for you?

One thing that comes up for me is that many folks are simply not willing to fully commit to attaining their relationship goals

Unfortunately, many people seeking love have bought into our western society’s materially oriented, superficial, ‘quick fix’ ideas about love and fulfillment.

The marketing pundits at Madison Avenue constantly bombard us with an endless list of things we must have so that we can be loved.


YOU are loveable just the way you are.

The growing use of online dating services, while providing instant access to an almost unlimited number of potential dating partners, does not guarantee success.

Online dating has created it’s own unique set of problems and risks.

Simply having more choices doesn’t seem to be the answer.

In fact, from one perspective having more choices actually contributes to more relationship disappointment.

What can you do to make sure that your next romantic relationship works out for the long term?

The short answer:

Commit fully to attaining your relationship goals

All of us have access to deep, powerful inner resources.

All of us also have the capacity to enlist the full support of the universe in our quest for love and fulfillment.

Activate Your Deepest Resources:

Commit to Doing Whatever It Takes to attract the right person and begin building the relationship of your dreams.

A deep commitment to yourself is an absolutely essential foundational component to success on the path to true, lasting love.

A deep unwavering commitment will give you access to your deepest resources and enlist the full support of the universe.

Goethe put it succinctly:

“At the moment of commitment, the universe conspires to assist you.”

What do Goethe’s words bring up in you?

For me, several things come to mind.

First, Goethe’s words confirm what I have believed for a very long time- that deep, unwavering commitment is the power that drives all human achievement and success.

Second, that a ‘unified consciousness’ makes you unstoppable.  A deep, unwavering commitment is the first step to unifying your consciousness around a specific goal.

Third, a deep unwavering commitment will help you to see obstacles and challenges from a ‘can do’ rather than ‘I’ll never get this done’ perspective.

So what characterizes this type of deep unwavering commitment?

First and foremost, unwavering commitment is characterized by the unflappable confidence that you will achieve your goal.

This does not mean that you now know exactly how you are going to achieve your goal.

Make the deep, unwavering commitment to creating a relationship with a partner who truly loves you for who you are, and step-by-step, the ‘hows’ will take care of themselves. 

My Clients tell me that this where having a coach who knows the way is so helpful.

We figure out the ‘hows’ together!

My extensive experience as both as a counselor and as a relationship coach combined with all that I have learned from the ‘school of hard knocks’ have given me the insights necessary to help others to build relationships that will stand the test of time.

This has allowed me to create a highly effective seven-step program that has helped many of my clients to end the painful cycle of broken relationships and build committed loving relationships.

I have found this process to be effective even for those who have given up on finding true, lasting love.

You see, having a plan puts your mind at ease so that your heart can shine.

It’s time for YOU to stand up and shine!!!!

I am here if you need me.

I sincerely hope that you found this post inspiring and useful.

I invite you to support our community by posting a comment or question on my blog.

I wish you all the best in the new-year.

See you next week.

Live, connect, love and prosper

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  • Create a sense of clarity about the relationship you really want to have.
  • Find out the essential building blocks for having the relationship of your dreams.
  • Discover the number one thing stopping you from having the relationship you want and deserve.
  • Identify the most powerful actions that will move you toward the relationship of your dreams.
  • Complete our session with the excitement of knowing EXACTLY what to do next to attract a committed partner who truly loves you for who you are!

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1 Comment »

Comment by stephen light
January 1, 2014 @ 4:17 am

A beautiful read to start the year.

Thank you Ron

Love & Courage

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